Update to Babylon Native master and fix many issues

[ryantrem]

Describe the change

This change updates to the Babylon Native master branch, and fixes many issues (build regressions, runtime regressions, and issues due to newer tooling).

• Since dependencies are no longer submodules, but rather dynamically downloaded into the _deps folder, and since there is one _deps folder per platform and architecture, and since CMake was outputting to a source directory, we ended up in a situation where metro was picking up "duplicate" package.json files from all the _deps and erroring out. We don't want Metro picking up those package.json files anyway, and CMake should be outputting to a common Build directory, so it's been reconfigured to output to a Build directory from the repo root. This also required some other updates, like the xcworkspace files pulling in the generated Xcode project from a different folder.
• There were build breaks in most versions of React Native with a recentish Xcode update. These were fixed in minor updates to the React Native releases, so I updated both 0.69 and 0.70 to slightly newer releases. See 'value' is unavailable: introduced in iOS 12.0 facebook/react-native#34106 (comment)
• The podspecs were picking up ios/**/*.{h,m,mm}, which prior to the fix in bullet 1 were picking up tons of files from _deps. I fixed this by removing the ** before fixing bullet 1, but I'm going to leave it like this as it is safer anyway.
• Napi::Attach is no longer templated, so fixed this.
• glslang-default-resource-limits was an added dependency in BN, so it needed to be added here as well.
• Updated gradle packagingOptions to exclude more files resulting in build breaks on Android (thanks @bghgary!).
• Fixed an issue where fbJni installation at gradle sync time was failing (thanks @bghgary!).
• Configure CMake iOS tool chain via cmake fetch since it is no longer a submodule.
• Pulled in several fixes made to other repos along the way:
  • BabylonJS/JsRuntimeHost@5fefa63
  • BabylonJS/JsRuntimeHost@b3d4f2c
  • BabylonJS/BabylonNative@71a89f7
• Added _deps link folders in Windows vcxproj and removed deprecated paths.
• Disabled UnityBuild for UrlLib because of a conflict of headers.
• Added glslang-default-resource-limit link library.
• Explicitly set CMake Windows projects output to be VS2019 or CMake will use VS2022 when available and by default.
• Disable warning in NativeCamera for unreachable code BabylonNative PR : Disable unreachable code warning BabylonNative#1302

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Documentation

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Testing

I've tested Android debug and iOS debug. Clang segfaults on my machine when compiling NativeInput.cpp in release in Xcode, so I could not test iOS release. Android crashes on launch in release, but it is very early in React Native specific code, so I don't think this is a result of updating BN. I did not test Windows at all.

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Here are the build results
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Assembled-BaseKit-iOSAndroid0.65
Assembled-BaseKit-iOSAndroid0.69
Assembled-BaseKit-iOSAndroid0.70
Assembled-BaseKit-iOSAndroid0.71
Assembled-iOSAndroid0.65
Assembled-iOSAndroid0.69
Assembled-iOSAndroid0.70
Assembled-iOSAndroid0.71
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Here are the build results
Assembled
Assembled-BaseKit-iOSAndroid0.65
Assembled-BaseKit-iOSAndroid0.69
Assembled-BaseKit-iOSAndroid0.70
Assembled-BaseKit-iOSAndroid0.71
Assembled-BaseKit-Windows0.65
Assembled-BaseKit-Windows0.69
Assembled-BaseKit-Windows0.70
Assembled-BaseKit-Windows0.71
Assembled-iOSAndroid0.65
Assembled-iOSAndroid0.69
Assembled-iOSAndroid0.70
Assembled-iOSAndroid0.71
Assembled-Windows0.65
Assembled-Windows0.69
Assembled-Windows0.70
Assembled-Windows0.71
Artifacts will only be retained for 90 days.