fix(xds): ordered ADS

[jakubdyszkiewicz]

Checklist prior to review

check ci

• Link to relevant issue as well as docs and UI issues --
• This will not break child repos: it doesn't hardcode values (.e.g "kumahq" as a image registry) and it will work on Windows, system specific functions like syscall.Mkfifo have equivalent implementation on the other OS --
• Tests (Unit test, E2E tests, manual test on universal and k8s) --
  • Don't forget ci/ labels to run additional/fewer tests
• Do you need to update UPGRADE.md? --
• Does it need to be backported according to the backporting policy? (this GH action will add "backport" label based on these file globs, if you want to prevent it from adding the "backport" label use no-backport-autolabel label) --

[jakubdyszkiewicz]

on universal suite

2024-09-26T13:16:04.464Z	INFO	xds.dp-lifecycle	waiting for deregister proxy	{"proxyType": "dataplane", "proxyKey": {"Mesh":"dp-auth","Name":"dp-01"}, "streamID": 108, "waitFor": "0s"}
2024-09-26T13:16:04.464Z	INFO	xds.dp-lifecycle	deregister proxy	{"proxyType": "dataplane", "proxyKey": {"Mesh":"dp-auth","Name":"dp-01"}, "streamID": 108}
2024-09-26T13:16:04.475Z	INFO	xds.reconcile	config has changed	{"proxyName": "egress", "mesh": "", "versions": ["78e4d42f-5c92-426e-8b37-2302991502a0", "5cdbd604-2150-4c9f-a582-0d7ec8683129"]}
2024-09-26T13:16:04.591Z	INFO	xds.status-tracker	proxy disconnected	{"streamID": 111, "proxyName": "", "mesh": "", "subscriptionID": "bdc84fa3-ffc6-4411-9f95-f62c47e37165"}
panic: send on closed channel

goroutine 10572 [running]:
github.com/envoyproxy/go-control-plane/pkg/server/sotw/v3.(*server).process.func1()
	github.com/envoyproxy/[email protected]/pkg/server/sotw/v3/xds.go:100 +0x1b
created by github.com/envoyproxy/go-control-plane/pkg/server/sotw/v3.(*server).process in goroutine 10568
	github.com/envoyproxy/[email protected]/pkg/server/sotw/v3/xds.go:99 +0xaff

stderr: